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Winter brain fog and MS

By Shambrekiá Wise

Winter brain fog hits different. It’s not forgetting where you put your keys once. It’s re-reading the same sentence four times and still not knowing what it said. It’s trying to talk and your thoughts feel like they’re sliding around on ice. It’s knowing what you meant to say — you just can’t grab the thread in time.

I don’t think we talk about this part enough: sometimes brain fog isn’t a crisis, it’s just annoying. It’s inconvenient. It slows you down. It makes simple things take longer than they should. And in a season already packed with tasks, obligations, and appointments, it can feel like one more thing piled on top.

Not dangerous. Not shameful. Just real.

Here’s the thing nobody tells you. You don’t have to “think your way out” of brain fog. You support your way through it. When your brain feels like it’s buffering, it’s not about pushing harder — it’s about setting conditions that make clarity easier to reach. So here are a few tools that actually help:

Practical support, not pressure

1. Warm up your brain like you warm up your body: Before jumping into tasks sit with your tea or coffee, listen to calming music, and pick one small action before the big ones. It’s not procrastination — it’s pacing.

2. Use “micro lists”: Not a full planner. Not a 40-item to-do list. Just a short list of three: what needs to happen, what can wait, and what would be nice but is not necessary. If it’s not on the list, it doesn’t get to bully you.

3. Single tasking isn’t laziness: Multitasking during brain fog is like trying to juggle snowflakes — nothing sticks. Pick one thing, finish it, and then reassess. That’s not lack of productivity. That’s protecting clarity.

4. Use environmental reminders: Sticky notes. Phone reminders. Alarms. Visible cues. Not as proof of forgetfulness — but as support for a brain that is absorbing a lot.

5. Talk to yourself kindly: Not “What’s wrong with me?” Try: “Okay, my brain is asking for a slower pace. Let’s follow that.” The language you use with yourself matters. 

6. Build recovery into the task: Just like appointments need buffer time, thinking does too. If you need 20 minutes after a creative push, it’s not a setback — it’s maintenance.

When fog meets feelings

Brain fog isn’t just cognitive — it can feel emotional, too. Little things can suddenly feel louder:
  • frustration
  • overwhelm
  • embarrassment
  • the pressure to “act normal”

But you are not required to perform wellness to make others comfortable. Sometimes the most empowering sentence is: “My brain is slow today, so you’re getting the paced version of me.” If people can’t respect that, the problem isn’t your fog — it’s their expectations.

Slow down. You only have you to compete with.

Winter brain fog doesn’t mean you’re losing yourself. It doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. It doesn’t mean your mind isn’t sharp or creative or capable. It means your brain is asking for partnership instead of resistance.

So this season, the goal isn’t to “beat” the fog — it’s to move with it, make space for it, and still trust yourself. Some days will be smooth. Some days will be snow. Both are still progress.

We’ve got this — one clear thought at a time.