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Cool, calm, and collected

By Shambrekiá Wise

Let’s have a real talk about winding down when you’ve got multiple sclerosis. Sleep can feel like a battleground some nights. Your body’s tired, but your mind is doing backflips, your nerves might be firing off their own mixtape, and you’re just trying to catch a solid night of rest. It’s the little things we miss so much, right? So how do we set the scene for actual restoration? Let’s talk about it.

1. Keep it cool — literally

First off, temperature matters. People with MS are supersensitive to heat, and even a few degrees can make symptoms worse. Aim to keep your bedroom around 60 to 67 degrees. I feel like a lot of y’all just threw a book at me through this screen, but I promise I wouldn’t tell you something if I hadn’t tried it. Turn on a fan and use layers of breathable sheets and thin blankets so you can comfortably alternate if necessary. Flannel PJs are out of season, unless you live in Chicago, then they are suitable until July.

2. Electronics, be gone

*Plugs ears so I can’t hear me, again* 

I get it — you wanna scroll, binge, or zone out. But screens before bed are messing with your melatonin, that sweet sleep hormone. Blue light delays it, and for MS warriors already dealing with fatigue and disrupted sleep cycles, that’s the last thing we need. Try cutting electronics 30 to 60 minutes before bed and replace them with something mellow such as reading, journaling, or that long-neglected adult coloring book. Bonus: Throw some sleepy time tea in the mix (if your doc says that’s okay) to really get you in the mood, to do absolutely nothing but rest.

3. Breathe, baby, breathe

*Takes out cotton* 

Meditation and breathwork aren’t just trendy — they’re powerful. Studies show mindfulness can improve sleep quality, reduce anxiety, and ease MS-related fatigue. You don’t need to be a guru. Just sit still, close your eyes, and breathe in for four seconds, hold for four seconds, out for four seconds. Repeat. Even five minutes of this cycle can set the tone.

4. Eat early, sleep easy

Let’s talk about dinner. Eating too close to bedtime invites acid reflux, indigestion, and those annoying midnight wake-ups. MS can already mess with digestion, so let’s not add fuel to the fire. Try to eat your last meal two to three hours before bedtime, and keep it light — think grilled fish, sautéed veggies, capped off with a calming cup of chamomile or peppermint tea.

5. Set the vibe

You know your space. Dim the lights, play soft music, maybe light an herbal candle. Make your bedroom your sanctuary. Not your office, not your snack den — just your tangible version of peace and serenity.

This isn’t about perfection — it’s about intention. Every night won’t be flawless, but stacking these little habits can help your body recognize that it’s safe, it’s calm, and it’s time to heal. Sleep isn’t just rest — it’s resistance, it’s recovery, and for those of us navigating MS, it’s absolutely essential.